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Mind Fucking me…

I haven’t written poetry for a while. I used to write a lot of it when I was depressed many many years ago. I wrote this last night on the spur of the moment – so please be kind ; )

(Actually I can take criticism – my husband is a writer and very honest with anything I dare to show him – so feel free to pull the following to pieces if you want to… ; ))

Mind fucking me

in the middle of a breath

you take

me softly

with a slap

I fall

bending like willow

for your pleasure

willingly receiving

what you have

to give me




I whisper

you whisper




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T.M.I. Award…

I am very happy (and thankful!) to accept this award from not one, not two, but three lovely fellow bloggers, (who I enjoy reading on a regular basis.) They are the excellent and horny Bimodal, the sexy and sassy Anisa and the wonderful and tender Theo.

The TMI Blog Award honors those blogs that discuss everything in detail and do it well. These bloggers aren’t afraid to discuss their most awkward, embarrassing and intimate experiences with honesty, humor and little to no filter.

Here are the rules:

  •  Thank the person who presented you with the award.
  •  Link back to the blogger who presented the award to you.
  •  Share an awkward, embarrassing and intimate story in 250 words or less.
  •  Copy and paste the blog award on your blog.
  •  Present the TMI Blog Award to 5 – 10 deserving blogs.
  •  Let them know they have been chosen by leaving a comment at their blog.

Those of you who read this blog, know that I do display awkward and embarrassing/intimate experiences with honesty – some humor and as far as I know no filter. I’m hoping I do some of this well…

A story where I’ve been embarrassed was a difficult one for me to find.  But I think this one counts. I wasn’t exactly blushing during the ‘event’, but definitely felt embarrassed after:

I was working late with a new guy who was very good looking, but only 17… I was 27 and married, so for me it was a look, flirt, but definitely don’t touch situation.

We had a party to go to in the evening with other work colleagues (and a few celebs put in for good measure.)

We were driven by limo and when we arrived about 9pm said party was in full swing.

(Talking about celebs, Lily Savage, who was at the party, absolutely loved my brown suade platform shoes!)

Because of having worked flat out, I hadn’t eaten since lunchtime, so I stupidly downed a couple of shots. I was drunk very very quickly. I idiotically had some more and then found myself head down the toilet for the rest of the evening.

I can’t remember much after that apart from the toilet bowl and intense nausea…

I thought only half an hour had gone by, but in reality it was about 1am and people were looking for me to go home… I remember dragging myself to the sink and drinking as much water as I could to try and get a little more sober. It helped abit and I managed to get to the limo just in time…

I don’t remember the rest of the journey, but I was told the next day that I was snogging the 17 year old and then I puked up everywhere! Yuck!!! And I’ve never been properly drunk since…

Enough said of that I think!

Many of the blogs I follow and would give this award to have already received the T.M.I, but here are a handful which I think haven’t been mentioned yet…

Happy exposing of yourselves:

The Naughty Poet – This guy writes right from the heart. Heavy stuff and takes me back to a place I used to know very well. The few erotic poems he has posted as well are just mind blowing…

Can I keep you… A very deep love, hard to read at times –  not straight forward…

Between you and I – The very horny Nastassja writes about herself and her husband Neo. Oh so similar to me and mine. Married for a while and then suddenly a sexual revival!!!

Terriblytorn13 – My first friend from the very beginning of my blogging days… This woman seems to be trapped in an unhappy marriage. She is trying somehow (without much success!) to make it work. She is also having a very HOT long distance affair…

You Linger Like a Haunting Refrain – Have only just discovered this blog. There are some fantastic fictional stories and some real life goings on. All of it is smoking hot!!!
As seems to happen for me from time to time, I have work to do which takes me away from bogging… This will happen in the next few days sadly… But I will be back reading and writing soon…

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Wanking and breastfeeding – is there a link?

Was going to write about having had great sex at 2am previous night and feeling exhausted  by it and why did we have to do it etc… But fell asleep!

Its not that I mind him wanking, I just find it quite amazing that we have had sex nearly every day this week and he still finds the urge (and time!) to masterbate!

What does concern me is that for years and years we didn’t have sex – maybe once a month if we were lucky and then we would be listening out for baby sounds…

I had absolutely no libido during breastfeeding.Three children breastfed for about three years each, plus pregnancies in which I couldn’t have sex during the first 3 months of pregnancy due to tiredness and nausia – and then my husband was too scared to have sex with me during the last three months of pregnancy incase he hurt the baby. (We did have a bleed during a ‘session’ in the first pregnancy in which I was admitted to hospital – so who can blame him.) All this adds up to over 10 years!

About half the time we have been together! Thats alot of time without having sex! My husband must have been sooooo frustrated – and he was but he never pestered me – but thank God for wanking – otherwise I’m sure he would have had to have had an affair (or two or three!)

I remember this period of abstinence well. Dried up crusty hankies and socks with tissues in them hidden in every inconceivable place!

I’m truly amazed that the sex we have now is so so good as at one point our love making was rather snatched and nonexistant for oh so very long.

Hormones are curious things….


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