I can’t ever remember having makeup sex… until now…

12 Feb

Taken another time! After a row I don"t try to be pretty... Definitely no stockings!


We’d had the most enormous row… The sort of argument that brings out the worst traits…

A quarrel that makes you question if you really want to be with that person…

We used to be the sort of couple who had passionate but horrible rows. But that was years ago… We don’t play games with each other any more. I think I used to be the one who initiated friction – maybe because I got a thrill out of it. But then there comes a point where you just have to grow up – and I did! Sometimes we bicker, but nothing serious.

The most recent ‘incident’ can be added to the list of about 5 in all our time together that was truly saddening…

I’m not going to go into detail apart from to say that it was both our faults, but he came out acting much more of an idiot than me…

Later, lying next to him in bed in the darkness, tears were streaming quietly out of my eyes…

We talked some about what had happened and why…

“I don’t know how I am ever going to make it up to you.” he said…

Even though my heart was aching and dispair clouded my thoughts ‘Fuck me every night’ flicked through my mind…

“Oh come here please” he said reaching out his arms. I wanted closeness, but then again I wanted distance. I found myself laying my head on his chest. He hugged me tightly.

‘”Well, there goes that blow job” he said regretfully, but not without a touch of humor.

“Yep, I was thinking about giving you one aswell… Never mind!” (We’d fucked twice in the last few days – I’d orgasmed quite a few times but he hadn’t! So its true, I had been thinking of a nice way to give him his dues…)

We just lay there for a while until I felt something poking gently at my belly button.

“Sorry, its your breathing!” he said. I felt down towards his now very hard cock. I then felt down to his balls, which strangely seemed relatively empty… I removed my hand – maybe it was too soon… But I could feel his hot breath on me and there was definite chemistry…

His hand was on my right ass cheek and it squeezed. Then he began to spank me gently, getting closer and closer to my pussy – which is kind of one of my favorite things…

To begin with it still felt as though he shouldn’t, we shouldn’t be going so close in, so quickly – but it felt good and all the hurt and pain lifted too easily away.

“What do you want?” I asked hopefully…

“Hot sex!”

He was very big and very hard – it took my breath away when he entered. He was deep and urgent in his pounding. I had two delicious orgasms and then he withdrew…

He pushed his hard cock towards my now open mouth. I played confidently with the bulging head. I think its been a while since he was so rock hard and I was anticipating the amount of cum that was going to shoot. Already quite alot of his juices were seeping out…

We were on the bed with him kneeling. I was in front of him with my ass sticking up into the air. I’m sure it looked good from his perspective – but the angle wasn’t great for depth. I encouraged him to lie down and then I had more room for manipulation… Now I could bring him deeply in…

His cock was ramming the back of my throat, my hips moving provocatively (but not intentionally) with my mouth movements – like I’m fucking all over again.

Then I concentrated more on the head – rubbing my lips up and down its prominent rim. More pre-cum oozed out and I remark on it.

“Its like your cumming or something!” and then more seeped between my lips and down my throat…

He doesn’t cum then though – although he does seem extra hard than normal… But I guess there has been a few days of a build up for him…

5 minutes…My lips are tired…

10 minutes… My lips are numb and my neck aches… I bring him over onto his side, so that I can rest my head. He fucked my mouth.

In… out… in out.. times something like 100 (or more!)

He took the back of my head and gently controlled it.

Suddenly it was there shooting into me… cum, cum and more cum. He groaned and moaned and laughed.

I licked and sucked some more until he was totally clean and he was squirming with too much teasing.

I crawled up to him and laid my head on his chest, which I think is one of his favorite places for me.

No tears now, just some whispered kisses and thankyous.

Then sleep, sweet satisfied sleep…

Just to let you lust fueled sexy readers know, that from tomorrow lunchtime, I won’t be blogging too much over the next few weeks due to work ‘stuff’ which I have to focus on. I will be around, but not around if you know what I mean…’Please leave your comments though… I do love them! I’m sure I can make a little time to reply… ; )


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37 responses to “I can’t ever remember having makeup sex… until now…

  1. lovesexandmarriage

    February 12, 2012 at 8:53 pm

    I’m sorry for your fight, but it sounds as though the sex was HOT!

  2. Gillian Colbert

    February 12, 2012 at 8:54 pm

    I believe sex is the physical manifestation of the emotional bond between a committed couple. So make up sex is always worthwhile, it’s a reassertion of your bond.

    I’m glad you worked it out.

    P.S. We’ll be waiting with baited breath for your return.

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 13, 2012 at 7:31 am

      I agree with your definition Gillian – which you put so succinctly. Thank you! I will miss it – just hope I can be disciplined enough not to blog… But I will have to be – its only a few weeks after all!

  3. Little Miss

    February 12, 2012 at 9:42 pm

    I love make up sex. I love the feeling of being mad and wanting to punish him by keeping distance, but then not being able to resist!

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 13, 2012 at 7:32 am

      Fighting has never made me feel horny – but this time he was very persuasive!

  4. Foster Drake

    February 12, 2012 at 11:42 pm

    A bittersweetness strains from this post. The clouds of emotion stirred by fighting sometimes unleash a torrent of lust. I cannot say I have found it to be a remedy, but it does seem to free more communication. Perhaps at times the physical need allows us to appreciate the person even as the emotional need causes us to be angry. A touching tale. My best wishes to you two. I will miss you while you are preoccupied.


    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 16, 2012 at 8:17 pm

      Thank you for your best wishes Foster! How eloquently you comment!

  5. Liza Bennet

    February 13, 2012 at 1:23 am

    While we haven’t had makeup sex in a long, long time, we do have “close the distance” sex, and it’s very, very good. Somehow, sometimes it just sets everything right again.

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 13, 2012 at 7:36 am

      I know what you mean about ‘close the distance’ sex. When we weren’t having sex as much as now – he used to work away from home Tuesday to Friday. We would fuck every Friday on his arrival home and sometimes on the Monday night before his departure. It definitely helped us get back closeness…

  6. TemptingSweets99

    February 13, 2012 at 3:10 am

    I’m glad you made up ( and we got to read about it. 😀 ).

  7. pivoine68

    February 13, 2012 at 5:38 am

    I never have make-up sex with my husband because we never fight…not because I’m never angry with him but because I LOATHE conflicts and will go to great lengths to avoid them. I would like make-up sex though…it’s good physically and emotionally. Really, I would like sex, period!

  8. sexuallifeofawife

    February 13, 2012 at 7:40 am

    Ha ha – may I ask if you are late 30s/40s? Going through the sexual high which some women experience? Or have you always been soooo horny?

    I’m glad I’m not scared of conflict with him.. That must be hard – especially if you are angry with him sometimes…

    • pivoine68

      February 13, 2012 at 11:24 am

      43. You are right…I was horny before but nothing compared to now. Mainly I think I’m angry with him because HE is never horny. He does have one thing in common with your guy though (which is sometimes sort of confusing) he is a LONG time (or never) coming. That always makes me totally insecure and also makes it seem unfinished, yuno. Other girls would be ecstatic! LOL

      Take care during your non-writing vacation! I’ll miss reading you!

      • sexuallifeofawife

        February 13, 2012 at 2:17 pm

        Oh don’t be insecure about it… Just like some girls find it harder to cum than others – the same with some guys. Sometimes its in the mind – but often its just physically how they are…
        I’ve been hearing about more and more guys who seem to have this ‘problem’ – but if only your guy was more horny than you could use it to your advantage lol.
        I used to find it quite hard how long it would take him to orgasm and sometimes he just wouldn’t – but now it really is an advantage – maybe because I’m not as tired as I was and also I know more ways to bring him over the edge.
        If all else fails – there’s always the ‘wank’ cloth and I help him out – so it still feels like a ‘together experience…
        I will take care thank you!

      • Reed

        February 14, 2012 at 5:52 pm

        River and I are in our 40s. This past year I’ve become a fan of not coming during sex, especially in the morning, and not just because I can often get River to fuck twice in one day that way. We like to think of it as being in the middle of a fuck while we go about our daily business.

  9. Anisa

    February 13, 2012 at 6:11 pm

    Our arguments are awful, and I don’t really notice a difference in the sex afterwards. I’m glad you guys are ok.

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 16, 2012 at 8:18 pm

      I didn’t feel a difference in the sex either – although I really wasn’t expecting it!

  10. Reed

    February 14, 2012 at 5:48 pm

    I personally can’t stand makeup sex. It’s great while it happens but it seems phony afterwards and I don’t like the dynamic. At all. River and I have never done it; it usually takes us both a couple days to recover to the point where we’re comfortable enough to open up with each other. We always snuggle though and that feels good after an argument. The last couple years were rough for us like that but we’re better now.

    Sounds like makeup sex totally worked for you two, though. And reading about it is working for me.

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 16, 2012 at 8:24 pm

      I’m not sure that it really was make up sex as most people picture it – in which two people are still angry and use the sex to thrash it out. I don’t think I could do that…
      Love the idea of you and River doing stuff throughout the day as if it is all in the middle of a fuck. Now that is horny!
      Glad the reading of this post was working for you ; )

  11. H.H.

    February 14, 2012 at 6:15 pm

    Very pretty pic. Have a very happy Valentine’s Day Sophia! Hope there’s nothing more to make-up for.


    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 16, 2012 at 8:26 pm

      Thank you so much HH&Lo! I hope there won’t be any more arguments for a long while…

  12. lostinnevada

    February 15, 2012 at 12:55 am

    Sorry for the circumstances, but makeup sex can be really good. Both of you are just angry enough that inhibitions can be tossed out the window!

  13. unchainedxxx

    February 15, 2012 at 2:28 am

    Hopefully, the make up sex was not just a way to get some, even though it seems like your partner was the receiver. 🙂

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 16, 2012 at 8:31 pm

      No, even I have my limits! I was dressed in full PJs with not a hint of lace. The distance felt so great between us – I thought sex was totally off the agenda. (Usually I wear something provocative to bed like stockings)

  14. Huff

    February 17, 2012 at 11:34 am

    So glad you worked it all out.
    The secret to a happy and healthy relationship is communication, communication, communi- OH MY GOD I’M COMING! 🙂

  15. The Hook

    February 19, 2012 at 12:03 am

    You have the heart of a poet… the insatiable desire of a Goddess… and the imiagination of a porn star!
    In other words, you rock… HARD!

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 19, 2012 at 9:41 am

      That is such a sweet, sweet comment Hook! Thank you!

  16. terriblytorn13

    February 19, 2012 at 11:43 pm

    so hot, from the pictures to the words and everything in between.
    So sorry to hear about your fight but I’m so glad you guys worked it out.

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 20, 2012 at 10:21 pm

      Yeh, it was a pretty bad one… But all forgiven relatively quickly – thought it would take alot longer…Thank you torn!

  17. frcoena

    February 20, 2012 at 12:36 pm

    this is hot and i am hard nd pictures is wow 🙂

  18. sexuallifeofawife

    February 20, 2012 at 10:22 pm

    Thank you frcoena!

  19. Sophia

    February 29, 2012 at 3:22 pm

    Like sweets said sorry about the fight 😦 but your make-up sex sounded awesome! Just yummy. 🙂

    • sexuallifeofawife

      February 29, 2012 at 10:06 pm

      Yummy – that’s a good word.. Yes, it was just that!


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