Putting the record straight…

14 Dec

I haven’t mentioned this before – because it seemed quite insignificant at the time – but my husband now knows about this blog…

I can’t lie about anything really to my nearest and dearest friends and I just had to tell him…

His reaction, I thought was incredible as it was so ‘nothing!’

I think I began the conversation with lights out and just after having sex…

“Well, that’s another one for the blog…”

“Oh yeh?” he replies rather sleepily…

“I actually do have a blog…”

“Yeh… Really?” still sleepy – probably not the best time to have a conversation with him!

“I’ll tell you about it in the morning, but basically our sex life in detail is on the internet…”

“What… what have you called your blog?”


“Oh that sounds good.”

“Really, so you don’t mind?”

“No, why should I?” I pause in the conversation to think of a reply and in the meantime he is asleep…

The next morning I show him some posts (I go out the room as I feel really quite scared of his opinion on my writing – him being a writer by profession and ‘abit’ of a perfectionist!)

And as I thought the first thing he does is point out some spelling and punctuation mistakes (!)

Then he gives me praise! (Hallelujah and I jump 50 feet inside myself!) He likes it! He can be so scornful of bad/lazy writing and he wouldn’t be too worried about hurting my feelings on this account.

So now that puts the record straight!

Oh, yeh... this has been me all week!





Posted by on December 14, 2011 in Honesty, relationships, sex, The truth


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21 responses to “Putting the record straight…

  1. xxbronzegoddessxx

    December 14, 2011 at 11:31 pm

    Thats so awesome that he likes your blog! I’d hate for you to stop writing if he didn’t! Btw, AWESOME picture!!

  2. Huff

    December 14, 2011 at 11:45 pm

    This just shows what good taste he has. Of course we knew that already as he’s married to you. 😀
    I love your writing. I was trying to think of how to describe it and I came up with “concentrated”. It’s like thick melted chocolate words running through the mind. So sweet and sticky that you just can’t help but have a taste and when you do it explodes with the ultimate sugar rush.

    • sexuallifeofawife

      December 16, 2011 at 10:27 pm

      ‘Concentrated’ hee hee, I love it!
      Sweet, sticky, taste, thick, melted, ultimate, chocolate, just can’t help, sugar, taste, rush, explodes…
      What horny words you have used…
      Thank you Huff!

  3. Scarlett DuBois

    December 15, 2011 at 2:55 am

    It really spices things up for you now! It’s almost voyeuristic, sexy; you’ll be wanting to try new things all the time 😉 xxx

    • sexuallifeofawife

      December 16, 2011 at 10:20 pm

      Thank you Scarlett! It has spiced things up and we’ve def talked about new things – but not enough hours in the day to ourselves… ; )

    • H.H.

      December 29, 2011 at 11:35 am


  4. Liza Bennet

    December 15, 2011 at 2:50 pm

    Yay! That’s a good thing, I think. D finds my blog so hot. He jacked off to it last night, reading about himself!

    • sexuallifeofawife

      December 16, 2011 at 10:18 pm

      Yes, def a good thing. Your D is so horny isn’t he ; )

  5. Anisa

    December 15, 2011 at 5:15 pm

    I wish I’d told M from the very beginning. Would have saved us a shitload of heartache.

    • sexuallifeofawife

      December 16, 2011 at 10:17 pm

      Did you tell him in the end – or did he find out? Maybe you can direct me to a post you wrote about it…

  6. thepostmanalwaysrings

    December 15, 2011 at 7:53 pm

    It’s great news that you can share this with your husband. I hope it just ‘enhances’ your already very healthy relationship in a few more ways 😉

  7. The Hook

    December 17, 2011 at 1:13 pm

    Ah, the joys of marriage – the non-sexual ones, I mean!

  8. H.H.

    December 29, 2011 at 11:35 am

    Hey Sophia, the sharing of the blog can be a lot of fun. As I’ve said in my blog, Lo is my biggest fan and I love to text her saying, “New Post!” and interrupt her work day or wherever she might be so that she goes on her phone and reads the latest from mysexlifewithlola and gets all twitterpated from it! On occasion she corrects my spelling and grammar as well. But, in the heat of the moment (of writing, that is) sometimes that gets away from you.

    Quick question, when you spend so much time masturbating, what is it that you masturbate to? Imagination, porn, other blogs (mine perhaps?) or what? (If you’ve written about this, just let me know where.)

    Lastly, I know that Lo loves it when I take pictures of her for the blog. Perhaps your hubby would enjoy it too so you don’t have to.



    • sexuallifeofawife

      December 30, 2011 at 10:43 pm

      Well HH, I have realized most recently that perhaps my masturbating is slightly different from the norm as usually I just concentrate on all the physical sensations and don’t really fantasize at all…
      Although saying that – as a teenager without anyone to play with I did occasionally imagine self pleasuring with my legs wide open – sometimes tied apart by someone – in a very public place. Then a group of men with stiff cocks would crowd round and begin wanking over me… Actually this fantasy or variations of it does pop its head up occasionally now and again but not usually when masturbating…

  9. frcoena

    February 21, 2012 at 8:19 am

    nice pic wow nothing behter then such pussy:) And you ar eso hepy thha your man is so good

  10. Sybill

    November 20, 2013 at 4:21 am

    How would you feel if I told you that a certain person is using all of your pictures from this site, claiming them as her own & claiming the blog as her own?

    • sexuallifeofawife

      November 29, 2013 at 10:41 pm

      Hi Sybill,
      I just got an email from someone saying just what you told me. I’m not sure how I feel about it…
      I guess if it makes them feel better about life it’s ok. It’s a bit strange though – maybe I should feel flattered…


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