The first time we fucked, I had 9 orgasms. He called me selfish after – but in a kind of affectionate way…
I don’t believe I was being selfish at all though. Age 19, I thought that having an orgasm turned men on – thats why I tried to have so many the first time – to please him, to turn him on and above all to make him come! – Its in quite a few films – prostitute wants to get on with the job, fakes orgasm and man shoots his load.
Anyway, my man didn’t come – after an hour and a half neither of us had the energy to carry on – even if I had had the energy – I certainly didn’t have the know how to bring him to orgasm.
When I first met my husband, he told me that it took him a long time to come –
“How long?” I asked
“An hour, maybe longer…Sometimes I don’t come at all.” Of course in my naievity and from experience – this couldn’t be possible – I was woman, he was man – ecstasy must happen.
The medical term for his ‘condition’ is delayed ejaculation.
To cut a very long story short (20 years later!) we now have pretty good sex – sometimes amazing and sometimes of course – (but not often) it just doesn’t happen…
He now takes about 30 to 45 minutes to come – which I can handle even if I’m tired.
The one main advantage that he doesn’t come within the average time (around 4 minutes I think…) is that I don’t have to worry about him coming before me and then I can have another 2, 3 or 4 orgasms if I want to (which I usually do!)
If anyone wants me to expand on the things that have helped us (like him not wanking so much!) to come to the delicious place we are now – then I will – just let me know…